How to Spot and Avoid Scams in Online Chat Rooms
5 min read · By the Chatmf team
Wherever many people gather, some arrive to take advantage. Chat rooms are no exception. The good news is that chat scams are repetitive. Learn four or five patterns and you will spot most of them within a couple of messages.
Romance and friendship scams
The scammer is warm, attentive and always online. They declare strong feelings after a very short time, and then something goes wrong: a medical bill, a stuck package, a plane ticket to come and see you. They ask for money, gift cards or cryptocurrency. Genuine affection does not arrive with an invoice. Never send money to someone you have not met in person.
Giveaway and prize scams
'You have won a prize, just confirm your details.' A prize you did not enter for is not a prize. These messages usually ask for a card number, a small 'shipping fee' or your login to claim it. Delete the message and move on.
Verification-code scams
A stranger says they accidentally sent a code to your phone and asks you to read it back. In reality they are trying to take over an account using your number. Never share a one-time code with anyone, for any reason.
Fake support and phishing links
Someone claims to be a moderator or support agent and asks you to 'verify' your account through a link or to give your password. Real staff never ask for your password in a chat. Look at the address of any link before you open it, and when in doubt, type the website address in yourself.
Blackmail and pressure for images
Some people try to get an intimate picture and then threaten to share it. Do not send such images to anyone. If you are being threatened, do not pay and do not keep negotiating. Save the evidence, block the person, report them to the platform and, where you are in danger or a minor is involved, report it to the police.
Red flags that appear in almost every scam
If you notice two or more of these in the same chat, stop and leave.
- Pressure to act quickly or keep things secret
- A request to move to another app almost immediately
- A request for money, codes, passwords or gift cards
- A story that keeps changing or does not add up
- Poor spelling combined with copy-and-paste style messages